Why People Don’t Like Nice People | The Psychology Behind Being Too Nice & People-Pleasing
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True kindness includes being honest, direct, and self-aware.📍Be kind. Be clear. Be you.
In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Sha LeWilante explores the hidden psychology behind excessive niceness, agreeableness, and why being too kind can lead to being overlooked, disrespected, or even taken advantage of. You’ll discover the deep-rooted reasons behind chronic people-pleasing, how it develops from childhood, and what science says about the link between kindness, self-worth, and boundaries.
👥 Learn how to balance compassion with confidence
🧠 Understand the psychological trait of agreeableness
🔓 Reclaim your authenticity and stop self-abandonment
✨ If you've ever asked yourself: “Why do people treat me this way when I'm just trying to be nice?” — this episode is for you.
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💡 Key Takeaways: Why Being “Too Nice” Backfires -Niceness without boundaries can lead to disrespect and burnout. -People unconsciously distrust excessive agreeableness. -Chronic people-pleasing often stems from childhood survival patterns. Saying “no” isn’t unkind—it’s essential for self-respect.
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